How to Get Social, Anytime, Anywhere

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Sometimes when you go out, you don't feel that social. Learn how to get social, anytime, anywhere! This is a problem that every person has at one time or another. Every person has experienced the funk before. When you are working on developing your social skills, you go out every night to improve. Unfortunately, some nights you will find yourself lost in the funk.

What is the funk?

Well we're not talking about the fun kind of funk. There's no parliament funkadelic here. We're talking about that horrible kind of funk, the funk you feel when you are standing on the side of a club or bar and not talking to anyone.

You went out that night to get social, meet new people, get a girl, have a blast. Instead, your standing there like a loser and even worse, you're standing there thinking "Why am i just standing here like a loser?!" which only makes it WORSE.

This is why the funk can be so deadly. It creates a self perpetuating cycle, where by contemplating the funk you are only increasing it.

So how can you escape the dreaded funk?? It can be easier then you think.

First you have to stop caring about the funk or you will never escape it. This is a key factor that's SO important. Just accept that you're within the funk, which will allow you to move passed it.

So once you're done freaking out, and then accepting the funk, whats next?

A simple visualization process is a great way to bust out of the dreaded funk. Remember that night that you were SO ON? EVERYTHING you said was funny, EVERYONE you met liked you, you had so much FUN, and then you went home with the girl you wanted. Those are the kinda nights we LOVE, and don't soon forget. You can utilize this past memory to make yourself feel great inside.

While you're standing in the club, stuck in the dreaded funk, do this visualization process with your eyes open or shut (who care's if anyone looks, break out of the funk!!!).

Visualize that guy standing right in front of you. That guy who was so awesome and fun, from that night when you were ON. See the energy radiating from him. See that energy as it hits everyone else in the room and they enjoy it, and in turn enjoy his presence. Create the full image of you, as this person who ROCKS, and really feel those feelings that you were feeling that night. Recall every bit of this awesome experience.

When you have fully imagined the you who is ON, allow yourself to merge this projection with yourself. Take a deep breath as you do so and make it all a part of you. FEEL the empowerment of these FUN emotions.

NOW GO. GO TALK TO SOME PEOPLE. Go and just enjoy the moment. Even after the visualization, you might not be fully ON yet. Don't worry about it, just go and talk to some people and before you realize it, you will be!